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Guts
Easily, this makes my top five list of favourite words. It takes guts to listen to your gut; to be real; to be honest; to master...

Elena Sherwood
Jun 18, 20211 min read
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"Should I go?"
I’ve been asked variations of this question over the years, and oh how I wish had the best answers for you. I’ve compiled an...

Elena Sherwood
Feb 23, 20211 min read
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"Should I stay?"
I’ve touched on exits in other posts on this blog, today I want to face one head on: infidelity. Unfaithfulness. Crossing the line. The...

Elena Sherwood
Feb 20, 20212 min read
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Unhealthy vs Unwell
When it comes to relationships, it's important that we distinguish between the unhealthy and the unwell, because we can have a solid...

Elena Sherwood
Feb 9, 20211 min read
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It takes a village to "raise" ourselves
While this saying is used for children, it can also be used to describe an individual, our very own village of one. Let me explain. As...

Elena Sherwood
Feb 6, 20212 min read
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Who we are
I started this blog because observing, absorbing, and sorting what transpires on a personal level is who I am, and what I do. I did this...

Elena Sherwood
Feb 2, 20211 min read
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Challenging ourselves
I ask a lot of challenging questions here, every post is about helping the best of us rise to our fullest selves, one way or another. I...

Elena Sherwood
Feb 2, 20211 min read
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It starts with you
There is a reason that, in a blog about relationships I focus quite a bit on individual issues. I do this on purpose, because what...

Elena Sherwood
Jan 26, 20212 min read
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Let’s talk about our "self"
Everything we think, feel, and do reflects our sense of self. This sense governs every act, it defines every want, and this conceptual...

Elena Sherwood
Jan 24, 20212 min read
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The walls we build, scale, and tear down
I haven't met a human without some sort of wall around them, if you're breathing, you have them. We all know these as "defense...

Elena Sherwood
Jan 15, 20212 min read
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The seer
Whenever I meet with a client (I’ll use a female for this purpose), I have only one pure and intentional goal: to find her, the real her....

Elena Sherwood
Jan 9, 20212 min read
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The best things in life are real
I am madly in love with the word real, actually no it’s not just love but it’s want, need and crave all in one. I depend upon it for...

Elena Sherwood
Jan 6, 20212 min read
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Life after
Unhappy couples sometimes stay together longer than what's good for them because breaking-up is hard. For those going through it, my...

Elena Sherwood
Dec 24, 20201 min read
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What if?
These two words demanded to be written about today so here goes. What if your relationship needs a bit help? Things aren't bad just dull,...

Elena Sherwood
Dec 15, 20201 min read
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You, in a relationship
There's a misconception out there in the world that when we enter into a committed relationship, some parts of ourselves are to be...

Elena Sherwood
Dec 13, 20202 min read
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The limbo of trial separations
When partners separate, especially after being together for a long time, unpleasant symptoms may arise. One might experience...

Elena Sherwood
Dec 10, 20201 min read
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