What if?

These two words demanded to be written about today so here goes. What if your relationship needs a bit help? Things aren't bad just dull, it happens. So, grab your partner's hand and say come on lets do something different and fun. Done. What if things are bad, and you're scared that if you go there, to the place where you voice it, things get worse? Yes the truth is hard but living an unhappy life is harder and it has serious health consequences. What if you're staying together for the kids? Nobly intended this might be okay, but you're modeling relationships and kids do as they see. So there's a risk there, oh and your both unhappy.

What if things can get better? This is about the time to get help, some things are indeed fixable, some things are not (that's a whole other post that will come later). For now, reflect back on all your attempts to improve your relationship; tally every step, big and little because this could give you a different perspective. What if you need help ending it? Then please get help, from family and friends, professionals, in extreme situations from the law.

However. What if, you are better off alone? Self mastery and self discovery are magical, imagine how that feels. What if...you find and have love from someone who truly cherishes you?