"Should I go?"

I’ve been asked variations of this question over the years, and oh how I wish had the best answers for you. I’ve compiled an over-simplified list that you can peruse, only you will know if they are meaningful. So, here are some signs to look for:

· You are staying together because it’s convenient, or feel it’s near impossible to leave (understandable, there is nothing easy about splitting up lives)

· You are hoping your partner will magically change, even when there’s no evidence of this

· There’s been distance for a while, and one or both of you is/are unwilling to change that

· You are in love with someone else

· Your partner is in love with someone else

Please remember to be kind to yourself, questioning is a necessary step! I wish you peace.