I'm several weeks into starting this blog and learning more about why I needed to do this. It's because there is so very much I want to...

I haven't met a human without some sort of wall around them, if you're breathing, you have them. We all know these as "defense...

Whenever I meet with a client (I’ll use a female for this purpose), I have only one pure and intentional goal: to find her, the real her....

I am madly in love with the word real, actually no it’s not just love but it’s want, need and crave all in one. I depend upon it for...

Without intimacy there's apathy, without respect barriers grow between two, and without commitment there are only exits. However, when...

This third major element in solid healthy relationships, goes pretty dang deep. I'm not talking about pleases and thank yous, or about...

In my studies, commitment emerged as an absolute must for a strong healthy relationship. This wondrous (or terrifying) word has gotten a...

Have you ever wondered what a strong and healthy relationship looks like? I sure did, enough to explore it thoroughly. This is the first...

Unhappy couples sometimes stay together longer than what's good for them because breaking-up is hard. For those going through it, my...

The quick answer is, nothing. Relationships improve when clients do the hard work, I help bring forward the right information so they...

These two words demanded to be written about today so here goes. What if your relationship needs a bit help? Things aren't bad just dull,...

Any moment where love blooms is worth celebrating! Falling in love and enjoying each other's company can feel heavenly, so here are a few...

There's a misconception out there in the world that when we enter into a committed relationship, some parts of ourselves are to be...

When partners separate, especially after being together for a long time, unpleasant symptoms may arise. One might experience...

Whatever it is that's brought you here, I am glad! This blog is something I'm pleased to finally launch because I know it can be...

Oh how I wish this one was true, but for relationships to work it takes a whole lot more than being in love. Decades of research...

Time and time again no matter what couples report as the problem, eventually I see that its really about closeness: the fear of it, the...